Users Say Ben Affleck Revealed His Divorce from Jennifer Lopez in This Car Video: What Happened on May 9?

Eagle-eyed netizens are convinced that Ben Affleck revealed that his marriage to Jennifer Lopez was headed for divorce based on his actions in a video. The actor has also been publicly spotted for the first time since Lopez’ filing.

On May 9, 2023, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were spotted running errands in Santa Monica, California. Based on footage taken of the two, it’s clear that something was amiss. Affleck’s visibly upset demeanor, as the duo got into a black car, is now being brought back into the spotlight after media outlets broke the news that Lopez has filed for divorce.

Walking ahead of his soon-to-be ex-wife, Affleck, who was holding a caffeine beverage, looked annoyed, and tense as he headed toward the car he and Lopez rode in. Meanwhile, Lopez was seen trailing behind her soon-to-be ex-husband with her head down.

Once the pair reached their vehicle, Affleck opened the car door for Lopez and stepped back onto the curb to make space for her to get in.

The actress, who carried a stylish Christian Dior handbag and a coffee cup, proceeded to get into the car, putting her bag down on the car floor first before maneuvering her legs inside.

After Lopez was seated, Affleck was seen slamming the door, swinging his arm—which was holding onto the car door—with force before turning to walk away.

He then walked around to the other side of the car to get into the driver’s seat, but before he got inside, he had a few words for the paparazzi who were recording the moment.

Donning a frown and furrowed brows, Affleck put one of his hands up (motioning for the paparazzi to stop filming), looked straight into the camera, and said, “I think you got it.”

The “Gone Girl” star then gets into the car and the video ends. Now that Lopez has officially filed to divorce Affleck, many are convinced that this video had foreshadowed the end of their relationship.

“Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were getting a divorce the day this video dropped lmao,” wrote a netizen on X. Similarly, another echoed, “The fact that he said, ‘I think you got it,’ to the pap after slamming that door meant he really had it. He wasn’t even putting on a front with his frustration knowing this was being filmed, so…yeah. [Lol].”

“Oh I think we def all knew then,” commented someone else. Further analyzing the tense moment, an observer noted, “The way he closed the door 😩😭💔.” “Every man knows this particular door slam,” highlighted another social media user.

Lo and behold, just over a year after that infamous video was released, reports confirm that Jennifer Lopez has ended her marriage.

After she had filed, Affleck was spotted solo in a parking lot. He was wearing a gray t-shirt, blue jeans, sunglasses, and sneakers.

His appearance has garnered a lot of attention from the public. A standout message comes from an Instagrammer who is heartbroken over the divorce news.

“Real-life relationships are far from perfect, and they require hard work, patience, and sacrifice. Marriage and long-term partnerships can be challenging, and sometimes even painful. #benaffleck #goodluck my heart @jlo💔 hurts,” expressed the Instagrammer.

Lopez’s divorce filing, which comes after spending two years married to Ben Affleck, reveals interesting details about the couple’s split.

She submitted the paperwork to the Los Angeles County Superior Court on a symbolic date—exactly two years after their second grand wedding ceremony.

According to TMZ, the couple’s separation date is listed as April 26, 2024, and further details offer a fresh perspective on their unexpected split.

Lopez reportedly filed for divorce on August 20, the same day as their Georgia wedding anniversary, adding a bittersweet note to their split. The couple rekindled their romance in 2021 and got engaged in April 2022.

After getting engaged, they had a surprise Las Vegas wedding on July 16, 2022. A month later, they celebrated with a larger ceremony at Affleck’s Georgia estate. In her On the JLo newsletter, Lopez described the day as “full-circle” and “better” than expected.

The ceremony was personal, with the couple walking down the aisle to “True Companion” by Marc Cohn. Lopez wore three custom wedding dresses: a turtleneck gown, a mermaid silhouette, and a chandelier pearl gown, which she called “dreamy.”

In a surprising move, Lopez filed the divorce documents without a lawyer. This approach, known as filing “pro per,” suggests she wants to handle the process independently. She also waived her right to spousal support and asked that the court deny Affleck any support as well.

TMZ also reported that the divorce documents reveal Lopez and Affleck did not have a prenuptial agreement. Despite their previous marriages and significant wealth, they didn’t protect their finances. As a result, any earnings or profits made during their marriage will be treated as community property.

Although Lopez has filed for divorce, their financial settlement remains unresolved. The couple’s Beverly Hills home is on the market, but negotiations have reportedly become tense. Lopez and Affleck are searching for new homes, signaling the end of their shared life together.

The duo first became a media sensation in the early 2000s when their relationship, known as “Bennifer,” made headlines. They got engaged and starred together in “Gigli” (2003) and “Jersey Girl” (2004), but their romance ended before “Jersey Girl” was released.

Over the next 20 years, both married other people—Lopez with Marc Anthony and Affleck with Jennifer Garner—but they reunited three years ago. Since then, they often appeared together at public events, promoting each other’s projects. Affleck even appeared in Lopez’s Amazon Prime Video special, “This Is Me … Now: A Love Story.”

The singer’s latest album, “This Is Me … Now,” revisits themes from her 2002 album, “This Is Me … Then,” which was inspired by her first relationship with Affleck. Fans followed their love story through Lopez’s social media and newsletter updates.

However, in May, Lopez unexpectedly canceled her summer tour, saying she needed time with her family—a decision that hinted at the couple’s split and eventual divorce.

Lopez and Affleck’s divorce comes after the pop singer garnered attention by attending a Bruno Mars concert in Los Angeles on Affleck’s birthday on August 15. This sparked online debate about whether she was masking her true feelings amid the the couple’s marital woes.

A video shared on Instagram by artist Tetris showed Lopez, dressed in a white sleeveless top and jeans, dancing energetically—swaying her head and raising her hands as she moved her body from left to right—to the song “Marry You.”

Although Lopez appeared to be enjoying herself, the clip quickly attracted attention, with netizens questioning the authenticity of her emotional state. A user observed that she was “Trying too hard to look happy.”

Another critic pointed out, “She knew that she will be videotaped. This is too hard seeking attention, even for JLo [sic],” while another added, “55 acting like she’s 25. 🙄🙄”

Someone else speculated that Lopez’s behavior might have contributed to her and Affleck’s marital woes, “Calm down Jen. It doesn’t always have to be a show… That may be the reason for your relationship demise 🤷‍♀️.” Not everyone was critical, though.

Some fans defended Lopez, saying she was just enjoying her single life. One fan noted that she looked like anyone else who loves music and suggested that Affleck, not being musically inclined, might not have enjoyed attending concerts with her.

Supporters encouraged Lopez to live life on her own terms, expressing happiness that she was enjoying herself. One fan urged her to “be happy” with or without Affleck, while another praised her for dancing and having fun.

Another fan celebrated Lopez’s happiness, stating that life goes on and that she has plenty to celebrate without being defined by a man.

Lopez further fueled the online conversation by sharing photos and videos from the concert on her Twitter account. In one post, she posed with two companions, wearing large sunglasses and flashy jewelry, including a necklace with her name as a pendant.

The “Atlas” star also shared a video explaining to her social media followers how she drinks from a bottle. “See how I do this when I drink from the bottle, very demure,” she playfully said before taking a sip. “Very mindful,” she added.

She also explained that she doesn’t chug her drink all at once but prefers to take small sips. “Just little. Little by little. Very elegant. Swelling it. Demure. Mindful [sic],” she shared, before walking off-camera.

Despite the buzz surrounding her concert appearance, Lopez did make time to visit Affleck on his 52nd birthday. She was seen leaving his rental home in Brentwood earlier that day, dressed casually in a brown jacket, blue jeans, and sneakers. She exited the house quietly and climbed into a large black vehicle.

Meanwhile, Affleck’s ex-wife, Garner, had also visited his rental home just hours earlier. She left in a sleek BMW, wearing a striped white T-shirt, navy trousers, and glasses, along with simple jewelry, including silver earrings and an Apple Watch.